Someone asked me about our cat Hugo's passing, and without thinking, I tossed back a bon mot:
"That feline led a dog's life."
First things first: maybe it's best for me to avoid humor when I'm jet-lagged ... and what the hell is a bon mot?
bon mot
bän ˈmō
noun: bon mot; plural noun: bon mots; plural noun: bons mots
a witty remark.
synonyms: witticism, quip, pun, pleasantry, jest, joke
origin: mid 18th century: French, literally ‘good word.’
I had no sooner uttered the words "a dog's life" than the raging doubts started. When we speak about a dog's life in this sense, do we mean it was a good existence (my intended connotation) or a bad one?
Actually, it can mean both such lives -- perhaps depending on when the speaker was born.
Noun: dog's life (plural dogs' lives)
(idiomatic) A miserable, wretched existence.
(idiomatic) A life of indolence where the individual may do as he or she pleases, just like a pampered dog.
Usage notes
Originally the term referred to the hard life of the working dog: sleeping in a damp barn, chasing rats and other intruders, living on scraps, etc. Today, however, it has in some circles acquired the completely opposite connotation indicated in sense 2.
I looked at a few other explanations off-line, and it seems that in the late 1990s, the view remained intact that "a dog's life" implies a short and unhappy one. Since then, the "pampered" definition seems to have gained ascendance.
We miss Hugo a lot, and maybe the truth of the matter is that he was a perfect exemplar of a "(house) cat's life," with the dogs having nothing whatever to do with it, whether indoors or outside.
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